Yeah We are finally working on lap dancing voice overs. It is looking good. I am so excited. We have already worked on 3 clips. I have been pretty busy since the last time I wrote. Let’s see. I had a great birthday. The weekend of my bday Brian made me dinner. Saturday my parents came down and my friend Becky came down from LA. I had a birthday party at Enoteca Style Wine Bar. It was a great turn out. The weekend after Brian surprised me and we went to La Quinta for the weekend. It was so nice. The weather was perfect. We tanned, read, cooked and relaxed. We both needed it. It was a great surprise.
I started a book club with my girlfriends. The first book was Eat Pray Love. There were about 5 of us. We drank, ate, talked about the book and had a very enjoyable evening. The next book we are reading is Three Cups of Tea. I am enjoying that book. I also started to read and learn about being more environmental friendly. I saw on Oprah a show on being green and to read this book Gorgeously Green. I am enjoying that book. I also want to start a Green Club. I don’t know if I could get many friends interested in that. I will try,
Lets talk about my classes and work. In general everything is slowing down in the world. I am still getting interest in my classes. Please email me or call me if you are interested. We have some great workshops. Right now Rebecca and I are doing the 4 week exotic dance experience. We have one more class left in the series the Pole. That is next Wednesday in Ocean Beach. This Saturday I am teaming up with Steven who does tantra. We are doing a lap dancing tantra class for couples. Next week I have a BJ Hand Job Workshop at the Rubber Rose. That class is always my most popular. In a couple weeks I am teaming up with the tantra cafe and another adult entertainment networking group. We are having the next FREE exotic networking group. This is a great way to meet open minded businesses and people. Come join us. I am also working on doing a exotic pilates class. I am looking for a wonderful open minded teacher to work with. I believe this class will be FULL every week. Any one interested? I also want to donate a monthly percentage to a new charity. Every class or party I teach I donate to that charity of the month. If you are a charity and interested email me. I have a lot on my plate and I have been working at the club a couple extra days a week. I haven’t been focusing on my ideas as much as I would like to. Work at the club has been really slow so I have been working extra to help me out. It is helping me out to get the DVD’s out, the 52 ways Cards and t-shirts. You will see this on my website at ebyresa.com real soon. Email me with ideas or comments. Resa

Hi Today is April 23rd. I am in Sun City today working on my striptease DVD. We are doing voiceovers on the walk and the crawl. I hope we get most of the striptease routines done. When I work on the dvd I get a lot done. I finally get a chance to write in the blog. I still need to do video clips of my life and put it on you tube and other video sites. So much is in the works. I have been working at the club a couple extra days a week. Those days I am not on the computer as much getting my name out. Please spread the word about my business. That would be great. What else is happening. A couple weeks ago I had a FREE Erotic Networking group. We teamed up with the Rubber Rose and this other adult entertainment networking group. There was about 30 or more people. It was a great crowd. I met a photographer Gary Wise. He is downtown and I have heard his name before. We talked and brainstormed about some ideas. After the meeting I met with him and discussed some photo class ideas. We also are going to do a cocktail event to introduce our services. We made an appointment next week to take pictures for the cover of my dvd, website and the deck of card idea. I also met with graphic designer. He is going to make my logo, business cards, shirts, dvd covers and another marketing product for people to learn the striptease and lap dance. After I finish these products I am going to start working on the Blow Job and Hand Job DVD and cards. I can’t wait to start spreading the word to talk shows, magazines, new stations, news papers, and stores all around. I love teaching it and I can’t wait for others to experience. My social life is doing good. This Friday is my birthday. Brian and I will have dinner on Friday and Saturday I am having a bday party. Next week he is taking me out of town. It is a surprise. I am looking forward to it. Yeah. Well I have a lot on my plate and I am looking forward to the dvd and cards to be done and you can check it out. Oh before the final product I am selling clips of each striptease move on a website called mindbites and they will also be on my site soon. Ebyresa.com Email me if you have any comments or questions. Resa

Today is Wednesday April 9th. Wes the video guy I am working with is over and we are going through the lap dance clips. This is the first time I saw the clips. It is looking good. We haven’t met up and worked on the dvd for a couple weeks. Now that we are working on it I notice we still have a lot to do. I am really excited but it takes longer than I thought. I am not in to much of a rush but I have some great ideas in store. I want to have a dvd release party. I also will be selling clips of the walk, hip rolls, crawl ect. to practice on on your computer or ipod. I will also be making a card set on striptease lap dance lessons. When the final products are done I will be looking into talk shows, news shows, magazines and more media. If anyone has any ideas I would love to hear about it. Other things I have been doing is last week I had the exotic networking group at the rubber rose. We teamed up with another networking group, and a sex positive meet up group and the rubber rose. There was about 30 people at the event. It was great. I made some connections. One photographer that I spoke to had some great ideas. We are going to meet next week and brainstorm and think of some great parties and workshops that we can work on. Lets see I have been working a couple extra days a week at the club. The last couple weeks the club is getting busier and people are wanting dances. That is a good thing.
Brian and I have been doing the date idea weekends. A couple weeks ago we went up to Los Angeles for the dodger red sox game at the coliseum. It was a different experience. That weekend was a fun weekend all together. He played golf with my dad. I hung out with my mom and Grandma Dorothy. I also got to see Grandma Tessie. We went out to breakfast with a couple girlfriends and I ran into a friend from highschool. I haven’t seen her in years. It was nice to catch up. Sunday we drove back to SD. We went to Karen and Kholas for a street faire. We partied, ate sushi, and karaoked. That was a long crazy weekend. Last week I worked a lot and the weekend I had 2 at home parties. Sunday went to the padre game and a bbq. I have a couple workshops coming up. I have teaser classes, the 4 week exotic dance experience and a Fellatio Hand Job Workshop. Keep in touch and I will also be writing the life of an exotic dance instructor. R

Hi It is Thursday March 13th. I am back in Sun City near Temecula working on my 2 how to DVD’s. I got here around 10am. We decided to reshoot the introduction and about me section for the DVD’s. I liked how I looked and presented myself during the first try but my eyes were not looking into the camera. I want my audience to feel that I am talking to them and I have confidence through my eyes. We taped it again with a different back drop. It is looking good. I can’t wait to start doing voice overs and seeing the final product. Since the last time I wrote, Friday day I worked at the club. It was a great day. Lately business has been slow but Friday was a busy day. I worked till 9pm. After work I went to Pacific Beach for a drink. Saturday was date day with Brian. We had breakfast and played golf. The last time I played golf was about 3 years ago. I had a great day and I had pretty good control with the ball. That night we went to dinner at Wet Stone. We were planning on listening to music at house of blues but we ended up watching a movie back at his house. It was a great day. Sunday I relaxed and went to dog park with my roommate. We had some gelato and that night went to Modus for dinner. Monday I worked at the club. Another decent day. That night I met up with Brian and his friends for dinner and drinks. Tuesday I worked on my business, did some errands and met up with Karen. We went bowling, and to some bars Downtown. Yesterday I worked on some email marketing. I met up with Kypris a tantra teacher. We planned a class next month. It is a tantra lap dance class for couples. Looking forward to that. Last night I met with my cousin and his work partner for dinner. Already a busy day. I will be leaving Sun City around 6pm tonight. Tomorrow I am working at the club. This weekend is my date day. I will keep you updated on my life and my workshops. R

Today is Thursday and the week is going great. I was supposed to work on my dvd today but we postponed it till next week. Instead I am organizing my email list through constant contact. This is a site that does email marketing with different templates. It also shows me who opened the email,read, throwed it awayed ect. I believe this site will help me organize and grow my business. Since the last time I wrote I worked at the club on Friday and that night relaxed with Brian. Saturday I was surprising Brian with a date day and night. Every other week we plan a day or night to go on a date. It is just a way to hang out with your partner and it can be a surprise, a weekend trip, a hike what ever you plan. I surprised Brian and we took a drive on the coast. We stopped for lunch in Encinitas, went to Carlsbad to a winery, ended up back in Encinitas for drinks and dinner. Than we saw a play in Solana Beach. It was a fun Saturday together. Sunday we hung out and did errands and had dinner with friends. Monday I worked at the club. Tuesday I had a busy day. I met up with Rebecca and we planned out the next Exotic Dance Experience. The next 4 week series will start Sunday March 23rd. After that I met up with Carly from the Rubber Rose. We discussed and planned the next Fellatio Hand Job Workshop. I am going to start teaching there hopefully monthly. Rubber Rose is in North Park. It is a sex boutique shop. We also booked the next FREE erotic networking event. It will be April 3rd. We may combine this event with the adult entertainment networking group. The rest of the day I did some errands and Tuesday night I taught the Fellatio Hand Job Class at Suki Day Spa. There were 8 girls and it was a fun time. Yesterday I met with my tax lady and I had a interview with an online publication called the Naughty American. The article will bee about my class on Blow Jobs and Hand Jobs. He will also talk about other classes that I teach. Last night I had the lap dancing workshop at my place. I love teaching the class and really focusing on the connection that it holds. After the class I went to Brians and they were having a birthday dinner for his friend Chris. Good food, wine and company. I am looking forward to another prosperous week and hope to get going on this DVD. I will keep you updated. Later